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Nothing is more difficult than human relations whether it is in a family,
friendship or a company.
Why does a confrontation occur when there are more than 2 people although they feel lonely when left alone? It is because they don't realize that if we think of our conveniences first, we cannot think of conveniences of the others. We live to our conveniences without knowing it .As a result the others have to put up with the situation. And at a certain point there is an explosion which leads to a dispute. There is nobody but wants to do things easily or have a happy time. That leads to the surrounding people to endure the situation. If we wish the others to do things easily or give greater happiness to the others, a conflict will not occurs. Everyone respects his own interest most. That's why it is difficult to do that simple thing. The human body has 6 billion cells. However they work in harmony without conflicts. The present world population is 6 milliard. There are always conflicts from small onesto serious ones. Why is it so? If we respect other's interest like ours, we might say that we have already a basis for a good human relation. We would like to build a peaceful home as a first step. It may be that human beings have not realized that science,however advanced, cannot make the world or a home peaceful. |
| Mother Teresa said, "Love starts from the home. First save the unhappy person in the family. If you have built a peaceful and warm home, love your neighbors. If you and your home are not filled with love, you cannot love your neighbors". |