Parents have many things to tell their children. But few parents can tell them. They tend to tell their children other things in fear that the children hate them. If the children are hard to handle, all the parents can do is selected words for several days and at last only to say a few words. Dispites, the children can't notice that, because their words are spoken in a casual manner. Parents worry about whether their children are displeased. They are glad that their children are cheerful. The parents can tell many things their children with a light heart when the children are younger. But as children grow older, they come to be hard to handle. So the parents intend to wait with patience until their children notice it. Because of that, there are not a few parents who can't sleep or who suffer from stress. However, the children never understand even if their ignorance is destroying the lives of their parents. The children are undutiful to their parents. Why do the parents have many things to say to their children ? The parents are likely to worry about their children and more even about their far future. That's the reason of their scoldings. Stronger the parents love their children, more they come to have what to say. I think the many scoldings are the evidence of the deep love. The parents and their children can become indifferent each other if they regard themselves as others. The children may want to say that the parents don't have to mind them because the relationship is better to them. The parents also understand that the relationship may be effective for the independence of their children. However, who can understand in the world the sorrow of the loneliness of the parentship that the parents have permanent love for their children ?